When something happens that we really don't like then negative thoughts
come into our mind, it is good if we control our feeling, otherwise, we lose
the power to understand the difference between right and wrong, this strong
feeling related annoyance makes us aggressive and we can do something wrong at
this case, this is called as anger. Although it is nature of human beings but
to be out of temper extensively is one of the symptoms of mental illness and
not good for health. There are three levels of anger, first stage is natural
that is called as annoyance. This type of anger can be controlled easily.
According to me this can be essential sometimes if there is question of
dignity, right etc or someone tries to cash in on your innocence and smiley
face. For example 'a teacher reprimanded some funky students who were scoffing
at a handicapped student.'
second stage is called as wrath, it makes you aggressive but you can still
control if you think positive or someone consoles you moderately.
third level is worst and dengerous because at this stage you are controlled
by anger completely, called as rage. I would like to tell you a story related
to the levels of anger. There was a police man. One day he found expensive
bottle of wine, his 16 year old daughter stole this bottle because she knew
that drinking is injurious to health and did not want to let him drink. Knowing
it, he became annoyed and shouted at her but girl did not obey him, man
consoled himself by thinking about their loving relationship. This was first
level of anger.
In next evening he asked for bottle once again but this girl refused, he
became aggressive and tried to slap her but when girl began to cry, seeing
this, his voice of heart prevented him from doing delinquency. Finally this man
could control his aggression. That was second level. In 3rd evening when this
girl did not give him bottle back, father looked daggers at his daughter and
tried to seizure it at the gunpoint. She knew that father loved her and was
just trying to terrify that is why she was sure about that he could not kill
his own daughter, so she screamed
"kill me, but I'll not give it to
you"
hearing this, man was anable to listen his voice of heart because he
had lost his head. Unfortunately girl was shot dead by him. Seeing the dead
body of his daughter , hapless man atoned for his sin but it got too late. When
police arrested him then culprit admitted that due to rage he did such a crime.
On the whole at second level of anger person should be alert because last level of anger kills,
wrath
causes rage and enraged person can hurt not only another people but also
oneself.
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