It is our expectation that doctor's son should be doctor or wrestler's son should be wrestler but there is no surety of this fact. Infact no guarantee of this fact that great person's posterity may be a good person, you will feel strange to hear that Mahatma Gandhi's son Harilal was a sinner who raped his own daughter, it was revealed when a letter (written by Gandhi) was shown openly and the whole story was brought to the light. It was revealed that in Sabarmati Ashram Gandhi's grand daughter came to live and she told him about her father's crime, being angry Gandhi wrote a letter to his son and used this sentence "you should die."
As we know that Hari Lal left this question among us how can any saint's son become a devil?
As we know that Hari Lal left this question among us how can any saint's son become a devil?
it means to say that only your great activities and personality can not make your child a good human being automatically, even parenting should be great. If you would not pay attention to your child in due course then it will be very difficult to make him mild mannered.
Some parents spoil their children's charactor by pampering a lot, apart from some parents set the outrunning boudations and force them to do something wrong unknowingly. So the fact is that before being engineer, doctor etc making your child a good person is essential but how? So you can pursuit following points which are given below-
• 3 to 12 years, this is very important duration to teach them good manners as much as you can. Till 12 year old, children are very innocent, that is why in this duration children absorb your ways, so do not do any wrong activity what impacts them . Do and teach what is right. They will follow you easily. If you could not handle them in this period then it is difficult to control if they become mistaken after this duration (after being 13 year old). For example, if soil is drenched then you can give it any shape as you wish but when this soil becomes dry, even you can not make any shape, let alone your choice. Child's way of thinking is akin to drenched and soft soil in the childhood.
Five year old kid's brain is almost developed, so start keeping an eye on and track his mistakes. If he does not obey you, speak to him strictly but don't forget to admire and support when he mends his ways or pursuits good activity.
• You can be rich but don't make kid's all wishes come true blindly so that he/she can realize the value of money.
• To get him obtain good marks in study instead of forcing, temptation of reward is good idea, they will surly perform to the best of their ability without any pressure. Apart from do not impose your dreams on them, infact try to know their own interest and move forward with their choice like drawing, dance, singing etc.
• Make clear all the types of
curiosities of children by giving right knowledge, when they would understand the difference between right and wrong then they would protect themselves by your guidance in your absence.
• 3 to 12 years, this is very important duration to teach them good manners as much as you can. Till 12 year old, children are very innocent, that is why in this duration children absorb your ways, so do not do any wrong activity what impacts them . Do and teach what is right. They will follow you easily. If you could not handle them in this period then it is difficult to control if they become mistaken after this duration (after being 13 year old). For example, if soil is drenched then you can give it any shape as you wish but when this soil becomes dry, even you can not make any shape, let alone your choice. Child's way of thinking is akin to drenched and soft soil in the childhood.
Five year old kid's brain is almost developed, so start keeping an eye on and track his mistakes. If he does not obey you, speak to him strictly but don't forget to admire and support when he mends his ways or pursuits good activity.
• You can be rich but don't make kid's all wishes come true blindly so that he/she can realize the value of money.
• To get him obtain good marks in study instead of forcing, temptation of reward is good idea, they will surly perform to the best of their ability without any pressure. Apart from do not impose your dreams on them, infact try to know their own interest and move forward with their choice like drawing, dance, singing etc.
• Make clear all the types of
curiosities of children by giving right knowledge, when they would understand the difference between right and wrong then they would protect themselves by your guidance in your absence.
• you should explain them frankly about all the upcoming changes related their body and attitude so that they can be prepared to accept transformation with maturity easily.
• If you do not want your teenager son or daughter's unnecessary love affair or attraction, at this case before age you have to discuss about loss or problems related unnecessary attraction and all things that you think wrong about this subject. When this delicate stage of the age would come then instead of being perverted they will focus on target.
• You are absolutely wrong if you think you can persuade your children by scolding because in adolescence they do not tolerate scolding at any cost. In addition to teacher and parents, you have to play one more role as a close friend. You also have to behave friendly with their friends. But pay heed, they should not feel that you are spying, so give them space for maintaining their freedom. In this role (as a friend) while giving importance to their notions and appetites you have to lead them, so that they can feel real happiness in desciplined atmosphere.
In a nutshell, neither outrunning freedom nor outrunning restriction is perfect.
Really and truly, If you succeed in teaching them good manners on the dot then your posterity would not only make you feel proud but also love you for good.
• If you do not want your teenager son or daughter's unnecessary love affair or attraction, at this case before age you have to discuss about loss or problems related unnecessary attraction and all things that you think wrong about this subject. When this delicate stage of the age would come then instead of being perverted they will focus on target.
• You are absolutely wrong if you think you can persuade your children by scolding because in adolescence they do not tolerate scolding at any cost. In addition to teacher and parents, you have to play one more role as a close friend. You also have to behave friendly with their friends. But pay heed, they should not feel that you are spying, so give them space for maintaining their freedom. In this role (as a friend) while giving importance to their notions and appetites you have to lead them, so that they can feel real happiness in desciplined atmosphere.
In a nutshell, neither outrunning freedom nor outrunning restriction is perfect.
Really and truly, If you succeed in teaching them good manners on the dot then your posterity would not only make you feel proud but also love you for good.
It doesn't appear to be an authentic account of facts. If one has a right to raise a finger at Harilal for such an alleged crime, then one should actually start demeaning all such Mohandases for protecting such criminals.
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